God's Will Versus My Will

Whoa.....it's been way too long since I've posted anything. Are you guys checking in every now and then? Someone sent in a topic she'd like to discuss--this whole idea of God's will vs. my own. She says that sometimes she thinks we force them to mesh or don't recognize that they are often different and wonders if she's the only one who gets caught up in these traps of worldly desires that are not from him. I'm more than certain she is not alone. Any comments?